Sacred Garden Mandala

Dr. Gretchen Blycker returns to The Sacred Garden Mandala podcast with The Yoga of Sex: A-MYSTERY Miniseries. This episode contains Modules Ten and Eleven.
 
In module ten, she introduces the Five Element Mandala Journey, exploring how the elemental qualities of nature offer a framework for understanding body, energy, emotion, communication, relationships, and consciousness. Drawing upon contemplative traditions, she examines how the five elements provide symbolic maps for recognizing patterns of balance and imbalance, cultivating self-awareness, and supporting personal transformation.
 
She explores the five elements: Earth, representing grounding, stability, and support; Water, representing emotional flow, connection, and adaptability; Fire, representing passion, vitality, creativity, and transformation; Wind or Air, representing communication, expression, perspective, and relationship; and Space, representing openness, awareness, and mindfulness. She discusses how these qualities influence sexual wellness, intimacy, boundaries, emotional awareness, and personal growth, emphasizing that balance is an ongoing process of listening, adjustment, and compassionate awareness.
 
She offers an embodied reflection practice and journaling prompts, inviting listeners to consider which elements feel most present in their lives, which may need more attention, and what practices could support greater grounding, connection, energy, communication, and spacious awareness. She also explores how the Five Element Mandala serves as a contemplative teaching tool within A-MYSTERY, connecting research, embodiment, mindfulness, and personal growth.
 
In module eleven, she explores Sexual and Relational Enlightenment, examining how awareness, empathy, compassion, communication, and relational wisdom support healthy sexuality and meaningful connection. She reframes enlightenment as the practice of becoming more conscious in how we communicate, connect, love, and care for ourselves and others, rather than striving for perfection or an ideal relationship.
 
She discusses sexual intelligence as the capacity to approach sexuality with awareness, responsibility, curiosity, discernment, and respect. She explores the roles of emotional and sexual empathy, mindful presence, honest communication, vulnerability, self-compassion, and trust in building healthy relationships. She also considers how relationships can serve as mirrors, revealing our patterns, fears, strengths, needs, and opportunities for growth.
 
Through embodied reflection and journaling prompts, she invites listeners to consider what creates meaningful connection, how compassion shapes intimacy, which relational skills they are developing, and how they can bring greater awareness and care into their relationships. She emphasizes that relational enlightenment is not a destination but an ongoing practice of listening, empathy, conscious connection, and compassion.
 
She previews the next module, which will explore Healing from Sexual Trauma and the Path of Sexual Recovery, continuing the journey through healing, resilience, reconnection, and compassionate pathways toward well-being. She also shares a free companion video, Personal Sacred Mandala Garden for Sexual Wellbeing, available through her website, which offers a guided mapping practice integrating the Sacred Garden Mandala, the five elements, the Mindful Model of Sexual Health, and additional contemplative frameworks.
 
BONUS LISTENING MATERIAL:The Sacred Garden Mandala for Sexual Wellbeing: Full Audiobook Edition
 
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FIND A FAVORITE SPOT IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 Welcome and Intentions
01:22 Arrival Breath Practice
02:20 Module 10 Overview
05:09 Nature as Mirror
06:22 Mandala of Interconnection
07:38 Earth Grounding
08:59 Water Emotional Flow
10:28 Fire Vital Energy
11:45 Wind Communication
13:11 Space Mindful Awareness
14:47 Elements and Sexual Wellness
16:11 Curriculum Link and Practice
19:10 Journaling and Integration
23:25 Module 11 Arrival
25:25 Module 11 Overview
28:09 Rethinking Enlightenment
29:52 Connection and Sexual Intelligence
32:45 Empathy and Presence
35:32 Communication and Vulnerability
37:41 Compassion and Relationship Mirrors
40:20 Module 11 Practices and Summary
47:43 Resources and Closing 

Dr. Gretchen Blycker returns to The Sacred Garden Mandala podcast with The Yoga of Sex: A-MYSTERY Miniseries. This episode contains Modules Eight and Nine.
In module eight, she explores the methodology behind A-MYSTERY, tracing how research, literature, and scholarship became a living educational curriculum. She examines the research questions that guided the program’s development, the need for a holistic and multidisciplinary approach to sexual wellness, and the integration of clinical sexology, comprehensive sexuality education, psychology, neuroscience, public health, yoga, mindfulness, contemplative traditions, trauma-informed care, and relational and sexual health research.
She explores why embodiment and experiential learning became central to the curriculum, how mindfulness and yoga help transform knowledge into lived experience, and why A-MYSTERY was designed as a smartphone-accessible, self-paced learning experience. She also examines the mandala as both an organizing framework and teaching tool, emphasizing the movement from information to transformation and the curriculum’s recurring pattern of research, reflection, embodiment, and integration.
In module nine, she introduces the Mindful Model of Sexual Health Mandala, a central framework within A-MYSTERY for understanding sexual wellness as multidimensional, interconnected, and integrated with overall well-being. She explores the mandala as a map, mirror, contemplative assessment tool, and guide for self-awareness and growth.
She examines the model’s eight interconnected domains: physical health, sexual and emotional health, individuation, intimacy, communication, self-awareness, spirituality, and mindfulness. She discusses how these areas influence one another and how mindfulness serves as a foundation for compassionate awareness, intentional choice, healing, and growth.
She offers embodied reflection and journaling prompts throughout both modules, inviting listeners to consider how they learn, what supports their growth, which areas of well-being may need attention, and how research and knowledge can become lived wisdom. She previews the next module, which will explore the Five Element Mandala Journey and the elemental qualities of body, energy, speech, mind, and awareness within the A-MYSTERY framework.
 
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FIND A FAVORITE SPOT IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 Welcome to the Journey
01:26 Arrive and Breathe
02:05 Module Eight Overview
05:11 The Research Question
06:23 Designing for Solutions
07:26 Holistic Sexuality Framework
08:28 Interdisciplinary Foundations
09:28 Embodiment and Experiential Learning
10:43 Mindfulness Yoga Integration
11:56 Digital Learning Design
12:47 Mandala Organizing Map
13:55 Information to Transformation
15:07 Curriculum Pattern and Pathway
16:10 Embodied Reflection Pause
18:09 Journaling Prompts
19:00 Module Eight Closing
21:54 Module Nine Opening
22:54 Model Purpose and Overview
25:27 Why a Mandala
26:39 Beyond Deficit Models
27:46 Mindfulness at the Center
28:52 Domain One Physical Health
29:58 Domain Two Sexual Emotional Health
30:56 Domain Three Individuation
31:58 Domain Four Intimacy
32:54 Domain Five Communication
33:37 Domain Six Self Awareness
34:26 Domain Seven Spirituality
35:20 Domain Eight Mindfulness
36:09 Curriculum Connection
16:10 Embodied Reflection Practice
39:20 Journaling Invitation
40:10 Integration Summary and Next Steps
42:33 Companion Resources and Website
44:07 Closing Affirmations and Farewell

Dr. Gretchen Blycker returns to The Sacred Garden Mandala podcast with The Yoga of Sex: A-MYSTERY Miniseries. This episode contains Modules Six and Seven.
In module six, she explores trauma, disconnection, and the return to embodiment, examining how trauma can affect connection with the body, sexuality, relationships, and self. She emphasizes survival responses as intelligent adaptations and explores embodiment, compassion, safety, pacing, and small steps as pathways toward healing and reconnection.
In module seven, she examines yoga, mindfulness, and the neuroscience of consciousness, exploring how contemplative practices can support self-awareness, emotional regulation, embodiment, relational well-being, and conscious choice. She discusses neuroplasticity, the relationship between awareness and healing, and the integration of yoga, mindfulness, compassion, and embodied practices within the A-MYSTERY framework.
She offers guided reflection and journaling prompts throughout both modules and previews a future module exploring the methodology behind A-MYSTERY and how research, contemplative practices, and educational design come together to create a multidimensional framework for sexual wellness education.
 
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The Sacred Garden Mandala for Sexual Wellbeing: Full Audiobook Edition
 
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FIND A FAVORITE SPOT IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 Arrive With Breath
01:01 Gentle Content Note
02:42 Module Six Overview
04:28 What Trauma Is
05:53 Sexual Trauma Impacts
07:17 Survival Responses Wisdom
08:22 Disembodiment Explained
09:42 Body Wisdom Return
10:37 Embodiment Healing Path
11:56 Small Steps Healing
13:04 Trauma And Sexual Wellness
14:10 Compassion As Medicine
15:07 A Mystery Trauma Informed
16:28 Embodied Reflection Practice
18:47 Journaling Prompts
19:54 Module Six Closing
22:38 Module Seven Opening
24:55 Module Seven Big Questions
26:32 Yoga Beyond Postures
27:58 Mindfulness Defined
29:06 Brain Survival Systems
30:30 Neuroplasticity Hope
31:43 Riverbank Awareness Metaphor
32:35 Consciousness As Witness
33:53 Yoga Embodied Awareness
35:07 Mindfulness Sexual Wellness
36:17 Compassion Healthy Mind
37:32 A Mystery Integration
38:48 Embodied Reflection Practice
41:39 Journaling Prompts
43:00 Module Seven Summary
44:25 Closing Practice And Next Module
 

Dr. Gretchen Blycker introduces The Sacred Garden Mandala podcast and is back with The Yoga of Sex: A-MYSTERY Miniseries. This episode contains Modules Four and Five. 
 
In module four, she explores sexual media socialization in the digital age, explaining how online environments and sexually explicit media shape beliefs and “sexual scripts,” and emphasizing comprehensive sex education, media literacy, and embodiment practices to transform automatic consumption into conscious engagement.
 
In module five, she examines objectification culture, self-objectification, gender socialization, power dynamics, and how rigid cultural scripts can limit authenticity, advocating a shift toward self-subjectivity, integrated human capacities, and shared power through communication and consent.
 
She offers guided reflection and journaling prompts, previews a future module on trauma and embodiment, and shares a free companion video on her website resources page.
 
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The Sacred Garden Mandala for Sexual Wellbeing: Full Audiobook Edition
 
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FIND A FAVORITE SPOT IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 Welcome to the Journey
01:28 Grounding Breath Practice
03:04 Digital Sexual Landscape
04:21 Defining Media Socialization
06:49 When Media Becomes Teacher
08:13 Information Versus Wisdom
09:25 Sexual Scripts Online
11:28 Objectification and Empathy
12:50 Media Literacy Tools
13:59 Embodiment for Discernment
15:09 A-Mystery Curriculum Approach
16:18 Guided Reflection Pause
17:50 Digital Awareness Practice
18:55 Module Four Wrap Up
21:01 Module Five Opening
24:22 Culture as Invisible Water
25:38 What Is Objectification
28:35 Sexual Scripts Explained
30:08 Gender Socialization and Power
33:34 Embodiment as Liberation
35:01 Curriculum and Transformation
36:17 Embodied Reflection Practice
38:39 Journaling Invitation
39:35 Module Five Summary
42:35 Closing Resources and Affirmation
 

Dr. Gretchen Blycker introduces The Sacred Garden Mandala podcast and shares modules from her dissertation-based audio miniseries, The Yoga of Sex: A Mystery, focused on deep healing and authentic sexual wellbeing through compassion, curiosity, and embodied awareness.
 
Module two defines comprehensive, holistic sex education as multidimensional—physical, emotional, relational, social, cultural, ethical, psychological, spiritual—and emphasizes that information alone is insufficient without skills like consent, communication, empathy, self-reflection, values clarification, and embodiment practices such as mindfulness and yoga.
 
Module three explores young adulthood as a sacred developmental threshold involving identity formation, intimacy development, meaning-making, sociocultural influences (including digital culture and sexual scripts), and spiritual growth, highlighting embodiment as key to self-trust, boundaries, authenticity, and wise relational choices. She offers guided reflections and points to companion resources at healthsesametherapy.com.
 
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The Sacred Garden Mandala for Sexual Wellbeing: Full Audiobook Edition
 
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FIND A FAVORITE SPOT IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 Welcome and Invitation
01:13 Module Two Overview
03:13 Grounding and Context
04:21 Why Definitions Matter
05:22 Research Based Frameworks
06:43 Beyond Information
07:38 Holistic Wellbeing Domains
09:18 Young Adults Need Holism
10:20 Embodiment Missing Piece
11:33 Curriculum Integration
12:29 Guided Reflection Pause
14:19 Module Two Summary
15:55 Module Three Begins
17:43 Rites of Passage Threshold
19:04 Identity Formation
20:50 Authentic Self Development
22:04 Love and Intimacy
23:43 Self Worth and Sexuality
24:45 Sociocultural Influences
26:07 Spiritual Meaning Making
27:41 Embodiment Path
28:54 Embodiment Practices
35:51 Authentic Sexuality Through Presence
37:51 Curriculum Support for Young Adults
38:55 Guided Reflection Module Three
40:21 Module Three Summary
42:19 Companion Resources and Closing

Dr. Gretchen Blycker introduces The Sacred Garden Mandala podcast and an evidence-based miniseries adapted from her doctoral dissertation, The Yoga of Sex: A Mystery, a mindfulness-based, yoga-centered sexual wellness curriculum for young adults.
 
She frames sexual wellness as multidimensional—woven into body, mind, heart, culture, relationships, and spirit—and emphasizes that education must move beyond information to cultivate compassion, embodiment, consent awareness, communication skills, empathy, relational responsibility, trauma-informed healing, and media literacy amid influences like digital culture and pornography.
 
The series combines peer-reviewed research, curriculum connections, and reflective practices, includes a listener care note about sensitive topics, and opens Module 1 on why sexual wellness education matters now. She offers a companion guided video on her website and closes with affirmations of wholeness and invitations to subscribe and share.
 
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FIND A FAVORITE SPOT IN THIS MODULE:
00:00 Welcome and Invitation
01:11 Miniseries Overview
04:33 Why This Work Matters
08:55 Module One Begins
11:00 Listener Care Note
12:40 Research Foundation
16:15 AMystery Curriculum
19:07 Guided Reflection
21:23 Next Module Preview
22:59 Companion Resources
24:34 Closing Affirmations
 

Dr. Gretchen Blycker introduces The Sacred Garden Mandala podcast and releases the complete 17-chapter audiobook edition of Sacred Garden Mandala for Sexual Wellbeing, designed to be heard in sequence or revisited as a toolkit.
 
The guide offers a trauma-aware, spiritually honoring approach that blends polyvagal theory, somatic practices, Tibetan yoga/Nejang, the five elements, Buddha families, and a mindful model of sexual health to support safety, consent, boundaries, nervous system regulation, and sustainable pleasure without performance pressure.
 
Using garden and mandala metaphors, it frames sexual wellbeing as cultivation across seasons and integrates two growth lenses (developmental skill-building and discovery/remembering). It emphasizes embodied listening, protective processes as intelligence, relational communication and repair, ethics and cultural discernment, poetry and inquiry, and seasonal integration (plant, tend, bloom, harvest, compost), with optional reflections, pacing, and activation-care guidance.
 
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HOW TO NAVIGATE THIS AUDIOBOOK:
Introduction & Audiobook Overview0:00 — Introduction (Dr. Gretchen Blycker)1:00 — Audiobook announcement & overview14:00 — How to use this audiobook / Introduction section
CHAPTER 1 15:53 — Chapter 1: A Garden You Can Live Inside
CHAPTER 2 27:30 — Chapter 2: Two Views of the Mountain
CHAPTER 3 37:24 — Chapter 3: The Body as Temple, Sacred Mandala
CHAPTER 451:22 — Chapter 4: Sacred Garden Mandala — Center, Inner Ring, Outer Ring
CHAPTER 5 1:03:58 — Chapter 5: The Five Elements Framework
CHAPTER 6 1:17:20 — Chapter 6: Healing Practices for Each Element
CHAPTER 71:30:26 — Chapter 7: Breathwork and Subtle Body Practices
CHAPTER 81:43:28 — Chapter 8: Buddha Families — Transforming Emotion into Wisdom
CHAPTER 91:57:19 — Chapter 9: Dakinis — Embodied Wisdom in Motion
CHAPTER 102:08:00 — Chapter 10: Mindful Model of Sexual Health
CHAPTER 112:21:04 — Chapter 11: Sacred Garden Mandalas for Sexual Wellbeing
CHAPTER 122:32:39 — Chapter 12: Healing Journey — From Trauma to Empowerment
CHAPTER 132:44:00 — Chapter 13: Self-Protective Processes — From Safety to Freedom
CHAPTER 142:57:28 — Chapter 14: Relational Health and Communication
CHAPTER 153:10:05 — Chapter 15: Seeds for Awakening — Poetry and Inquiry as Practice
CHAPTER 163:30:02 — Chapter 16: Ethics, Values, and Cultural Discernment
CHAPTER 173:45:12 — Chapter 17: Seasonal Integration — Plant, Tend, Bloom, Harvest, Compost

In this episode of The Sacred Garden Mandala, Dr. Gretchen Blycker welcomes Fernanda González-Vilchis, Director of SRI en Español (Sowa Rigpa Institute en Español), Nejang Yoga Instructor, Sowa Rigpa practitioner, editor, translator, and educator.
Together they explore the wisdom of Sowa Rigpa, the traditional Tibetan science of healing, and the practice of Nejang Yoga—a profound system that integrates body, energy, breath, visualization, and awareness to restore balance and reconnect us with our innate wellbeing.
Fernanda begins by guiding listeners through a beautiful meditation featuring the Five Dakinis, the Five Elements, and the luminous mandala of the heart. From there, she and Dr. Blycker explore how earth, water, fire, wind, and space shape our physical, emotional, and mental experiences, offering practical ways to recognize imbalance and return to our natural state of harmony.
Whether you're navigating grief, stress, anger, overwhelm, or simply longing for a deeper relationship with your body, this conversation offers compassionate wisdom and accessible practices for cultivating resilience, presence, and embodied healing.
In this episode, you'll learn:
The foundations of Sowa Rigpa, the Tibetan science of healing
What Nejang Yoga is and how it differs from other yoga traditions
How the Five Elements influence physical, emotional, and mental wellbeing
The role of the Five Dakinis and their enlightened activities
Why balance—not perfection—is the goal of healing
How visualization, breath, movement, and self-massage help restore harmony
The importance of cultivating your body as a safe space for healing
Practical ways to work with stress, grief, anger, and emotional overwhelm through the wisdom of the elements
About Fernanda González-Vilchis
Fernanda González-Vilchis is Director of SRI en Español (Sowa Rigpa Institute en Español), a Nejang Yoga Instructor, Sowa Rigpa practitioner, professional editor, translator, and educator. Formerly Head of Editorial for National Geographic Latin America, she has spent decades bridging cultures through publishing, translation, and education. She teaches Nejang Yoga internationally and at Casa Tibet México, helping make the wisdom of Tibetan healing traditions accessible to Spanish-speaking communities throughout Latin America, Spain, and beyond.
Resources MentionedHälsosam Therapy – Dr. Gretchen Blycker's companion resources, including the Personal Sacred Mandala Garden for Sexual Wellbeing guided practice.
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FIND A FAVORITE SPOT IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 Welcome to Sacred Garden
01:22 Meet Fernanda González-Vilchis
03:16 Fernanda’s Multicultural Path
08:09 Mentorship and Mandala Roots
10:03 Guided Garden Visualization
22:55 Five Elements Explained
29:20 Balancing Elements in Daily Life
33:14 Stressful Wind Metaphor
35:03 Grief Through Elements
37:38 Introducing Space Element
39:45 Nejang Purification Practice
42:11 Embodiment Through Touch
47:29 Sense Organs And Organs
50:44 Body As Safe Space
52:53 Guided Resource And Closing
 

Dr. Gretchen Blycker introduces Episode 2 of The Sacred Garden Mandala, framing sexual well-being as something cultivated with compassion, curiosity, and embodied awareness rather than fixed through performance.
 
She offers the mandala and garden as organizing metaphors and presents “two views of the mountain” (developmental skill-building and discovery/remembering) to avoid either endless self-improvement or bypassing wounds. Using four lenses—mindful sexual health, phenomenological/non-dual language, optimal intimacy research (Kleinplatz and Ménard), and Vajrayana mandala/five elements—she teaches a three-zone map: center (presence/authenticity), inner ring (protection, boundaries, nervous system safety), and outer ring (expression, intimacy, communication).
 
Somatic prompts and clinical composites illustrate betrayal, objectification, and pornography-related rupture, emphasizing consent, empathy, transparency, and repair. She shares nine “petals” of optimal intimacy and closes with listener pacing, “map not a grade,” and resources at HälsosamTherapy.com
 
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FIND A FAVORITE SPOT IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 Welcome and Invitation
01:11 Episode Two Setup
02:59 Mandala and Garden Metaphor
06:09 Two Views of Growth
08:48 Body as the Path
10:24 Four Lenses Framework
16:10 Three Zones of the Map
16:54 Center Presence Practice
19:47 Inner Ring Safety
26:24 Outer Ring Expression
30:56 Clinical Vignettes
48:37 Five Elements Weather
51:36 Nine Petals of Intimacy
54:22 Co Producer Reflections
57:50 Seeds to Tend This Week
01:02:21 Resources and Closing Blessing
 

Dr. Gretchen Blycker introduces The Sacred Garden Mandala podcast as an invitation to cultivate holistic sexual wellbeing through compassion, curiosity, and embodied awareness of body, energy, and mind, joined this season by co-producer Dee Daniels and a range of guests.
 
Drawing from Tibetan lineages and Sol Rigpa teachings, Blycker connects ancient practices with modern neurobiology, including polyvagal theory, emphasizing personal inquiry, inner wisdom, and non-hierarchical learning. She shares her background in sexual trauma advocacy, massage therapy, holistic counseling, and clinical work with sexual trauma, compulsive sexual behaviors, and problematic pornography use, and explains how trauma can disrupt safety and pleasure through nervous system threat responses.
 
Using the mandala garden metaphor—rooting, tending, blossoming, harvesting, composting—she outlines a structure of sacred center, inner ring, and outer ring, guides a brief grounding and element-based practice, and emphasizes safety as foundational for healing and transformation.
 
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FIND A FAVORITE SPOT IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 Welcome and Invitation
01:52 Meet Dee and the Mission
03:39 Roots of the Mandala Garden
11:51 Dee’s Story and Podcast Intimacy
14:13 Gretchen’s Path to Sexology
20:26 Trauma Safety and Pleasure
27:16 Masculine Feminine Wisdom
33:24 Why the Garden Metaphor
38:38 Guided Mandala Practice
47:10 Closing Reflections and Next Steps
 

The Sacred Garden Mandala: Planting Seeds for Healing and Sexual Wellbeing
Dr. Gretchen Blycker introduces the Sacred Garden Mandala podcast, an invitation to cultivate the inner landscape through compassion, curiosity, and embodied awareness in support of deep healing and authentic sexual wellbeing.
She explores sexuality as a source of vitality, meaning, and connection, welcoming listeners who are seeking healing, awakening, renewed intimacy, or a more grounded relationship with themselves. Using the metaphor of a sacred, even “quantum,” garden beyond space and time, she points toward an inherent sense of wholeness and the ever-present nature of inner healing.
The trailer previews working with elemental energies - earth, water, fire, air, and space - and invites reflection on inner light, presence, and states of peace. At its core, this introduction centers on the practice of planting intentions as seeds, and engaging the ongoing cycles of tending, blooming, harvesting, composting, release, renewal, and beginning again.
 
AVENUES FOR CONNECTION:
Gretchen Blycker, PhD
Board Certified Sex TherapistLicensed Mental Health CounselorLicensed Massage TherapistRegistered Yoga TeacherPh.D. in Clinical Sexology
 
LET'S BEGIN:
00:00 Welcome and Purpose00:29 The Sacred Garden Invitation00:58 Quantum Garden & Healing Imagery01:21 Working with the Elements01:37 Inner Light Reflection01:58 Planting Intentions02:24 Cycles of the Garden: Renewal & Release02:45 Closing Gratitude